I HIGHLY doubt he is the only guy who has ever found you attractive nor will he be the last :)
That is why I harped on having SELF-RESPECT. Guys will show you attention but it is up to YOU to weed out the losers. The fool in question, IMO, should be kicked to the curb.
We have to get rid of the weeds in order to make room for the flowers, right? Well if you are getting distracted with ONE loser, that leaves you no time to get active, focus on improving yourself, which would create an opportunity for you to meet that special guy.
Look, I can’t make you do anything. If you want to continue entertaining a guy who has VERY CLEARLY communicated to you that he sees you as a semen dumpster, then do you. IF I WERE YOU, I would heed some if not all of the advice I gave you in the previous post. Yes, i am being blunt right now. Why? Because there are TOO MANY girls who would give in to the demands of a guy like this an end up emotionally hurt, raped, abused, pregnant, or killed. I don’t take these things lightly.
You are beautiful, you are smart, you are friendly, you are inquisitiveness and the right guy will appreciate all of the wonderful qualities you possess. The right guy will not pressure you into doing something you don’t want to do. You have to believe that :)
Take care sweetie. I’m here if you need me <3 xoxo#askbws #sex #black girls #black women #interracial dating
As you know, I don’t mince words or beat around the bush, so here are MY thoughts.
1. STOP TALKING TO HIM!!!!!!
2. Why would you continue to talk to a fool who:
a. texts you for booty calls
b. has NO interest in getting to know you
c. VERBALLY ATTACKS you for declining his advances
WHY WOULD YOU STILL STAY IN CONTACT WITH SAID FOOL???
Seriously hun, cease all communication with him. When you have self-respect and love yourself, you NEVER let other people use and abuse you like that.
If you are serious about your self-preservation, end all communication with him…if he continues to harass you, let him know you will talk your phone to the proper authorities (school admin, the police, parents, etc) and they can deal with him.
After you have cut off all contact with him, I would start focuing on YOURSELF and what makes you happy. Do you have a hobby? Is there an activity that you have always wanted to try? Are you planning on going to college or community college? Have you started planning for that?? Are there any after-school clubs/orgs that you might be interested in?
The point is you should be BUSY enjoying life and doing things that make YOU happy, not spending precious time on folks who do not uplift you.
If someone of something is NOT adding value to your life…CUT THEM OUT. You come FIRST….always :)
Good Luck hun!!! Let me know if you have any other questions!! xoxo#askbws #black girls #black women #sex #men